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How to Successfully Meet Women

The most frequent question men ask is how to meet women. This is a question that has baffled men for years, centuries even. So how do you meet a woman and how do you use that to your advantage?

Let’s start with the trick part of meeting women. It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it. If you want to make a good impression and consequently get the girl, then you need to be funny, energetic, and very confident. It can be a bit difficult as confidence is one of those things that’s very important but hard to learn. You need to be comfortable with yourself and with the world in general.

Another thing you have to realize when trying to meet women is that women often put thought into choosing who they go out with. Don’t listen to a woman’s dating advice on how to meet a guy. They don’t know either. That’s why you’re going to go out and find out who you’re really attracted to. Yes, that means you’re going to go to bars and clubs and find the women who are your type.

Now that you’ve found them, it’s time to talk to them. Remember when you didn’t know what you wanted, and you went to get it? Well, when you’re trying to meet a woman, more than probably, you’re not going to be successful.

So what do you talk about? Your hobbies? Your interests? Anything you think is interesting. You want to make sure that you’re interesting AND deep…that is, you want to talk about things you enjoy and you want to ask her about her interests in the same issue.

It should be easy to find this common interest

Think of something you’ve both done and say that it’s interesting. Simple words like “Oh, so you love to hike, don’t you?” There have to be a reason why the two of you are together.

The biggest mistake men make is that they try too hard. Talking to women just isn’t the same as talking to your buddies. Sure, when you’re trying to get a girlfriend, you’re not worried about being witty, you’re not worried about what to say, but when you’re just trying to get laid, you get all flustered and that comes through in your conversation with a woman.

That often includes asking too many questions. Your hobbies. Your job. Any past relationships. Any legal or financial problems. Any other information that you think might be important to her.

When you start up a conversation with her just talk about your hobbies, your job, or any other information you think might be important. When it comes to finding out information about yourself, you can seriously lose your shot if you’re asking or feeling too inquisitive.

Also, you should know where the girl is from, but you don’t want to sound like you are too eager to get to know her country. It’s fine to talk about her country, her favorite foods, and asking her for her number. appeasing her wishes is a big turn off.

Knowing all of this, what do you do about it? Easily find common ground where you can start a conversation. Common interest can be huge. Spend some time talking with her about what’s interesting to you and what you do with your spare time. People dig into conversation when it’s offered. When common interest is established, the conversation can flow into other topics.

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